Jon Loves Love

all this gender stuff is confusing. The more I learn, the less I feel like I know

The imposter syndrome is hitting today

I’m doing fine, I swear

If you don’t have someone to talk to, I’ll talk with you. If you don’t know where to look for local support, I’ll help you look. I can’t offer much but my time and effort

#stitch with @Jon Loves Love what’s the point of virality if no one is CALLING ME HOT 😭😭😭

I’m probably not gonna correct you if you misgender me tho. I’ll just let it hit me in the gut and move on

First time I’ve been star struck since moving to the city. And I’m not telling where since I want them to keep their space

Go make a friend, be a friend, nurture a friendship. We all need connection, don’t we?

Surprise validation is still validation, I guess

Should I text my ex now or later

The protein bar is a paid actor

I’ve had some thoughts today

I’ll let the rest of the enby council discuss in the comments

Who wants me to combine this with real life

Replying to @CC Rae | AuDHD Storyteller I hope this gives some nuance to what I’m trying to say. But there’s so much more nuance to dig into

Please help, I am tired of having to pick and choose between communities

sad boi hours?

My journey is just starting but it’s looking bright

Cartoon me is who I aspire to be

I’m finally getting views, but at what cost#greenscreen

It warms my heart to be back

Do I look nonbinary yes or no

Glitched out at the end there. I think I need to recharge my battery

Dating is frustrating these days

Can a nonbinary person be my mentor here

Is dating feeling particularly hard right now for y’all too?

Trying to be good leads to more good in the world, don’t ya think?

I miss the wild wild west of the old internet days

What advice can other enby pansexuals give me

#stitch with @stanchris is this just how it begins? Was this just a marketing scheme to make me part of the community? Is there a limit to how many hugs I can receive when I sign up?

You are my valentine now, even though it was yesterday

We were never meant to be so text heavy in our lives anyway

For someone who loves love, I don’t get much lovin

I built this little corner of the Internet brick by brick for myself, I guess

Are we accepting ourselves completely this year or are we still battling our demons

Replying to @halfhearted.himbo 10/10, no notes. Internet always wins

You don’t know how close I was (am) to making a Toradora fan account

#stitch with @Jon Loves Love adding a bit of clarity here because finding non hierarchical polyamory is a pain #polyamorous #polyamorytiktok

Drunk thoughts speak sober truths, am I right

Where do I meet polyamorous people? WHERE #POLYAMORY #polyamorytiktok

I’m acting as if anyone is offering me any lately. My bed is COLD and I’m LONELY

#stitch with @Jon Loves Love Can we throw a parade once I finally use one

This is definitely not inspired by recent events with my family for the holidays

I’m slowly developing a praise kink after receiving 5 whole compliments at Pride

Anyone else feeling this lately?

sorry straight folx

Replying to @DivinaKitty am I the problem? Do I seek chaos? When will I ever gain some self respect

I miss having friends around to watch anime with, so will you be my friend for #ouranhighschoolhostclub 👉👈🥺

Just tell me that it’s okay to talk about my relationships pls

Me after getting left on read by another new person when I’m just trying to make a friend

Where are the gym-theys that can chime in?

I’ll be over here practicing my Harlem shake

or say hi out of the goodness of your heart. I can offer 1 (one) free hug in return. Maybe two

Replying to @Kezyax0 so it’s a thing that we all love people who don’t even like us, right? It’s not just me. Pls tell me it’s not just me

I do need new friends tho

First NYC Pride, first Pride since coming out, life is so interesting now

Replying to @Barbara Casique spoiler, it didn’t work out with any of them

tell me I’m pretty

Replying to @La Última Coca del Desierto This doesn’t happen to most people, right? I mean, I am leaving out SO much info, but back to back relationships to have the same thing happen is wild

I come back to this thought an often

I hope no one I know IRL ever finds this page

People have different tastes and all, and this is a bit of some problematic thinking, but you gotta understand this feeling, right?

I bet they’re just gonna want to be friends by the end of the night, but I’m still putting myself out there regardless

getting cheated on wasn’t fun tho

I was planning on working towards androgyny, but I don’t think my face is built for it. Guess I’m doomed to be a heavily masc enby forever

I’m really out here like “hi, can we be friends for real” and then it’s crickets

how many emotions can I feel today

#stitch with @Jon Loves Love I’m gonna take a picture with every blue haired person I can find

Imagine being polyamorous throughout this too and still having no romance in your life? Can you imagine that 😅😔😞

DO NOT TELL ME TO GO ON FEELD, I’M THERE AND STILL INCREDIBLY UNSUCCESSFUL

Everything is cool until I’m reminded that people who don’t like me will still see me my content

yet another for the “universe is universing too much” playlist

Sometimes the universe be universe-ing and I just gotta roll with it

Here’s what’s on my gay agenda: make the world more androgynous

I don’t know if I can do this

Channeling my inner extrovert

And if it’s still bad tomorrow…. I’m so sorry

Did y’all like any of these names? So far Jules might be my favorite but I don’t knowwwwwwwww

I’m never beating the eepy allegations

Dare me to text every single ex to try to boost these numbers

I’m doing great. Everything is great. We’re all great. Why are you so concerned!

Where the trans baddies looking to get baddie-er at in NYC

After spending all weekend* trying to figure out a costume, I am finally ready for Halloween festivities *two hours at the mall

My bad, I’m sure someone beat me to this. But still had to do it to ‘em #Christmas #Navidad #greenscreen

Good luck on holiday family time gang. Hurry up and come back to gay internet ASAP

Still got more toxic masculinity to unpack I guess

Just trying to be sexy to someone

I actually had so many more things to say but I thought it would get too specific

Would you match with me if you saw my profile

A dating app pro, one might say. A true sommelier of the internet dating scene

I’m not panicking I’m not panicking I’m not panicking

Can you feel the panic running through me the entire video

Say hi in the chat, hot people. And yes that means you. And you too. And yes, obviously you as well

Every dang day

pls don’t make this one go viral. This is the cringiest thing I’ve done yet

Replying to @💎 Diamond 💎 I need to see everyone showing out to this 😤😤😤 #fyp

It feels like I’ll get invalidated in my queerness for still liking women (although not exclusive now), but maybe that’s just my anxiety

Just imagine if community was already there and cool and we didn’t have to fight about the intricacies of gender This probably would’ve worked better if I stitched the original. TOO LATE NOW, JUST CHECK THE ONLY POPULAR VIDEO ON MY PROFILE

I feel like I’m just barely scratching the surface of all this family lore

Next time I’ll just stand on business and see what they say

Has any enby been in it for the attention and actually got net positive attention out of it?

Replying to @FANGS I love y’all trying to hype me up but I AIN’T BUYING IT! I need at least 3 compliments before I start accepting it

chat, what even is my life?

This is me totally not complaining

I can’t wait to move so I can start lying again

Gotta keep chipping away at this

Or maybe I’m just constantly in queer spaces 🤷🤷🤷

Me procrastinating whether or not I want to go out tonight

There’s a silver lining to most things, right?

How many nights a week do you spend on rugtok

It’s so easy to be myself with everyone else but my family. I still love them though

don’t you dare tell me about how the algorithm works. I’m just a girl

I didn’t know my face made these faces

Chat, should I shave the beard

Maybe I’ll rewatch Kaguya Sama while I wait

Am I allowed to be vulnerable here or do you hate me

Therapy isn’t enough, I need COMMUNITY

why did I look at the camera like it was your fault

How are my enby siblings doing? I have been trying to avoid agab discussions, but this felt important to chime in on

I started this page just to feel less lonely. Start some interesting conversations. I gotta keep it on that energy

I’m super lowkey and unbothered and have absolutely no chalants in my repertoire

All the homies got body dysmorphia and desperately need therapy

I’m tired of this grandpa

That’s it, I gotta get rid of the beard

The writers can be a bit lazy sometimes. But maybe I’m wrong this time?

I’m only 30 years old, it can’t be over yet

I keep wanting to add more nuance but I don’t script these

Maybe one day

I guess I’m more healed than I thought

open to suggestions for more

#stitch with @Jon Loves Love This didn’t get the appreciation it deserves

Help me pick a new name!!! I just think it could be fun to see what y’all say

This makes it seem like being neurotypical is the most atypical thing in the world

I actually used to make fitness content but gave up because it was too much work lol

Drink your water and wash your face kiddos

Chat, do you think they were trying to hook up or nah P.S don’t you dare comment on my hair, I’m waiting to cut it so it’ll be fresh for my birthday

Oh boy that new Game Changer episode

I love looking at pictures from my childhood

The memories have been worth it, but sheesh

hi

The universe gave me a bit more trauma to close out the year

It’s hard being a weeb sometimes

#stitch with @Jon Loves Love what is this rerun season or something?

Even NYC can feel small sometimes because why have I run into people from dates on several occasions already

We all need to work together to make sure the gym is a friendly environment for everyone, even if I accidentally scare some away 😞

I’m not mad, I’m just disappointed. Get it. DisapPOINTed. Like bullet point…. Ok I’m going back to work

I should make a list of all of these quirks in the matrix

Is this middle child syndrome? (I’m not a middle child IRL so I need y’all to explain it to me)

Am I over explaining my character yet? Do you need me to explain more? I’ll just write you an essay, it’s fine, it’s okay

This could’ve went on Vine…. IF I HAD ONE

do you ever feel you are forgotten too

That’s my rant. But don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love this show

I was indeed up way past my bedtime because of this

This is my first time watching Pose and I gotta cry at least once an episode

How long can I sit alone with my thoughts before I start crying

Manifesting the next love of my life. But don’t forget that I’m poly, so there’s room for more than just one of y’all 👉👈

How am I expected to g get any work done while I’m in the middle of an identity crisis

#stitch with @Jon Loves Love apartment hunting isn’t stressful at all. I’m having a great time. Life is so awesome

Can you tell that I really like the name Jon’s Gender Adventure

I don’t think this gender stuff would surprise some of my friends, I’ve been talking about it for years now, but Ive been scared to fully commit IRL 😔

I was gonna do a GRWM but then I just got ready

I haven’t gone on a single date in almost 5 months though

I keep joking about the universe so the universe keeps making a joke out of me

Not me getting teary eyed thinking about losing this space #massfollowing

I just want to be a reluctant star, is that too much to ask for

Replying to @ASDlostgirl I’m just out of practice with dating, I think

Trying out names is so much fun. I legit feel a different personality come from each one. Is this a gateway to drag?

I never mean to yuck anybody else’s yum. You should yum up whatever looks yummy to you

They say acknowledging the issue is the first step

I don’t know how so many of y’all found your confidence in your identity. I’m out here fighting for my life

Who wants to therapize this for me

Don’t give me ANY financial advice, I’M GAY (pan, but you get it)

Replying to @TerryPaul22 I didn’t know I was capable of making these noises

“Don’t forget your nihilism” goes so far. But also, go actually support indigenous businesses

Happy Halloween or something. I’m going back to sleep

I guess I’m just a late bloomer or something

Never let them know your next move

NYC feels smaller every day

we still need an enm anthem though

a little venting. can we be friends

Will update later on whether or not the breakdown happened

I got myself mad mid yap smh

It’s nice to say that things will be fine even if the worst case scenario happens. Wish me luck though 🤞🤞🤞

leave some supportive words in the chat, friends

This is was literally the first bit of mandarin shown to me on here and I love it

am i enby enough to be enby or am i too by

I’m happy for me, are you happy for me

I’m crying heavy tears right now

Am I just dumb and ill informed or are these legitimate questions

It’s that time of the year to unpack familial trauma, am I right

how can I connect with my fellow 30 and up queers

I just come on here and beg for friends every single day smh

No promises that I’ll be good at conversing over text, but I’m still in this thing

#greenscreenvideo I’m screaming. I’m scrumpting. I’m scroming. I’m just making excessively loud noises

thoughts while taking a break from my yaoi

Who else is sad with me tonight

Where’s the foreshadowing in your life? What do you look back on and think ahhhhhh of course

What’s keeping your life interesting lately

I’m just on here talking smack, like usual

stressful times, friends. sometimes you just gotta let it out

I guess this is what you call a hopeless romantic

Where are the #cosplayer s going and who wants to team up for a hipster my hero thing

I just want you to confuse me

any excuse to play with my nose, am I right

Talking about gender is so complicated. Can you tell my brain just scatters every time

I’m sorry, I just love this color way too much

Can I get some validation in the chat

Chat, can I blame the universe for my own stupidity