#teacher #teachersoftiktok #highschool #teacherlife #englishteacher #educator #blackteachersontiktok #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
every morning. and they still walk in without a knock. #momlife
#adulting #momlife #adultingishard #cleaning
When you get a moment, go ahead and check them out. It was the perfect meal for someone who wants AMAZING soul food. I don't think I've ever had better from a restaurant. #chicago #blackownedbusiness #chicagoblackownedbusiness #chicagofood #soulfood #review #supportblackbusiness #foodie #foodreview #sheunapologetic
I can't POST them. that don't mean I don't make them. I believe in enjoying my body for it's own sake. #saved #christiantok #christian #savedgirl #sunday #churchtiktok
How long do you think it takes to do six contractor bags worth of laundry? #laundryday #chicago #laundryhack #blackownedbusiness #chicagoblackownedbusiness #laundromat #review #sheunapologetic#shedoeverything
got this dress in every color from #oldnavy #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
these jeans are my go to. I have been wearing them in every color. totally in love. @oldnavy #oldnavy #thick #midsizefashion #curvy #mombod #fashion
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #fyp
#locs #loclove #womenwithlocs #loclove
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #thick #thiccc #midsize
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
A bonafide, unashamed church girl. I need church. I need this gathering. I need the energy. I need my people. #christiangirl #christian #jesus #churchtok
Greek salad for the gworls. #eattolive #lifestylevlogger #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
a lil crazy but it be making sense tho.
Talk It Out Tuesdays is a safe space… come see for yourself. Every Tuesday at Lux Event Palace in Hazel Crest, IL. Good drinks Good music Hosted by @Eros The Prince of Poetry $10 in advance (link in bio) $15 at the door #o#openmico#openmicchicagoc#chicagoh#hazelcrestp#poetryp#poeta#artistc#chicagoartistw#writerc#comedym#musict#thingstodos#shedoeverythingsheunapologetic
it's the accuracy for me.
cuz das how I am. #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
you not gon buyt it for me? cool. you won't enjoy doing nothing and everything with me? no problem. 💰💰💰✌️
I bought this dress on Amazon. link to my storefront in bio. ❤️ #CapCut
#selfcare #stretch #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
#midsize #thiccc #catfish #thick #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything #mombod
Nothing to see here
#selflove #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
If you can pray and praise with your inner circle, why they there?!? #bff #bffgoals #friendshipgoals #christiantok #reuniontour #kirkfranklin #sheunapologetic
I'm not a poet. if you're in Chicago and you love poetry, check me out this month at Wine & Words Open Mic in Olympia Fields Nov 20.
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
If “never seen the righteous forsaken” was a person… it would be me.
Baby it's the last day of school so if you knew me as Ms. Catlett, you don't know me no more. Let eff them kids summer commence.
Mind your business, until I'm your business. #fyp
Bruh. I got 4 kids. Don't ask me 'wyd'. Don't ask me 'wya'. 👏 I'm. 👏At. 👏Home. Cleaning and crying and being ugly and tired in peace. Leemelone. #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything #vlogger #blogger #thickgirl #curvygirl #plussize #midsize #youtuber #mombod #selflove #momlife #cleaning
Do it go in that order?
How could you nor love being a mom with kids like this?
Get that builder grade showerhead out of there and feel better about life after the best shower you'll ever take. This project takes less than 10 minutes and my child could do it.
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
winter Break me please! #teachersoftiktok #teachers #teachertok #teacherlife
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
If you are breathing, you are creative. #poetrytok #poetry #poet #spokenword #chicagopoetry #chicagoopenmic
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything #fyp
Handcrafted by yours truly, my whipped shea butter features the best ingredients for maintaining moisturize in your skin. Crated in small batches and with names that are inapired by my poetry, it is the perfect gift for anyone you love this holiday season. Or get it for yourself. Either way, with scents for men and women, you can't go wrong. Visit www.sheunapologetic.com (or click the link in my bio) for your order! Orders made before noon ship same day! 💚
Doing everything they told me I couldn't. 💚
#midsize #thiccc #mombod #thick #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
Rainbow Shops fall haul. #tryonhaul #fallwardrobe #thickgirlfashion #curvyfashion #curvy #thick #rainbowshops #haul #outfit #ootd #mombody #clothes #plussize #plussizestyle #sheodeverything #sheunapologetic For reference, I wear a L/XL in most items. I'm a solid 14 in bottoms, so I may pick a few 1X bottoms, or even a 2X for an oversized feel.
I wouldn't be able to give you the name of a single hater if I tried.
#mombod #WorldPrincessWeek #thiccc #midsize #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
because I self isolate and I don't feel like being bothered for 3-5 business weeks at a time.
week One down. #fitness #thick #planetfitness
Replying to @intangibleme you are allowed to cry and feel. God meets you there and carries you through. His grace is sufficient. not your strength, but His!
Found this video my daughter made of me. I’m not crying.
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything #fyp
I'm definitely ugly 6.75/7 days a week. #catfish #mombod #thiccc #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
This is my firat workout at my heaviest weight. Takin it slow. 20 seconds on. 10 second rest. 1 minute break between sets. I warmed up on the elliptical. #curvy #curvyfitness #thickgirlfitness #plussizefitness #CapCut
Boundaries & Brows | Read the full blog. 🔗 in bio. #blogger #boundaries #selfcare #relationships #family #healing #motivation #sheunapologetic
My bodywork therapist @Courtney is the absolute best. And he travels all over the world caring for people. See him for all your physical care needs. #selfcare #blackownedbusiness #massage
you ever wanted somebody so bad but they didn't want you like you wanted them? yeah me neither. #poetsoftiktok #poetrylover #poem #poetry #poet
What u gotta do?
“ For Auburn Gresham & Afto Joe’s” I love my city. It made me who I am. But its something about my neighborhood that feels special. I remember being 6 years old and telling the adults in my life that I wanted to open a coffee shop in my neighborhood when i grew up. A safe space for everyone there to come and learn and grow. They told me it couldn’t be done. That teens would steal and destroy. So I abandoned that dream. But a few years back, Afro Joe’s, a black-owned coffee shop, opened on the very street I dreamed of. I wrote this poem during my first visit to that space. This video was filmed at @Overflow Coffee Co. , a coffee shop in South Loop that sits on the grounds of former black-owned record labels. #chicago #auburngresham #blackhistory #poetry #poet #spokenword #chicagoartist #chicagopoet #17thward #coffeeshop #blackownedbusiness
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
#glowup #thiccc #mombod #selflove #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
Spent the weekend in DC. the rest was much needed. Definitely going back soon. Shoutout to my bodywork therapist @Courtney for getting me back in order. #traveltiktok #washingtondc #weekendtrip
Picture Day #christian #christiantiktok #momlife #mom #sheodeverything #sheunapologetic
#classroom #educator #blackteachersontiktok #teachersoftiktok #teacher #teacherlife #highschool #englishteacher #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
#momlife #aldi #aldifinds #teachersoftiktok #momsoftiktok #workingmom #fyp #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
retwist $80 #loctician #chicagolocs #CapCut
#thickgirlfitness #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #curvyfitness
#thiccc #mombod #fitness #thickgirlfitness #curvyfitness #workout #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
#stepone #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
#skincare #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #fyp
Thanksgiving Break wasn't long enough. where the scammer class at? I need an exit strategy. 🙄#teach #teacher #teachersoftiktok #teacherlife #teachertok
i can't stand this child.
@wingstop doin the Lord's work.
"Babe let me do..." then do it. what you waiting on? #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
Confession: Despite living in Nashville for 6 years, I have NEVER owned a pair of cowboy boots. 😳 The way I screamed when I saw these cute boots on the clearance shelf at @walmart The only ones of this kind. And perfectly in my size. Now I need to figure out how I want to style them this Spring. Give me some ideas in the comments and check me out on @liketoknow.it for the link to these boots. 🤠 Madden NYC Women’s Tall Western Boot Color: Bone #walmart #walmartclearance #walmartfinds #ltk #widefitshoes #shoelover #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
my salvation is not worth 400k. I'm not selling out for less than 50 million.
I have done the keto diet off and on for YEARS now. I have probably tried every keto snack known to man, but I don't think there's a better keto bar than @munkpack . Their granola bars and fruit & nut bars got me right on together. only 150 calories it is the perfect thing to munch in between meals. Y'ALL better come up here and get one of these... link in bio. #keto #ketodiet #ketolife #ketolifestyle #ketosnacks #munkpack #food #healthy #plantbased
I'm definitely a a cactus.
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #diy #homemade #cleaning #cleaninghacks
cheers to accomplishing Plan A and B... I wonder when Plan C & D gon kick in. 💚 #fyp
@lenscraftersofficial_ had me feeling myself. #foureyes #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #fyp
Drank this amazing black owned wine and messed up the lyrics.
🙄
I'm talking to me... but also you. It's yours. go get it.
all this time I thought I was medium ugly. wow. #Inverted
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #glowup
Mood: Curly & Girly #locs #locstyles
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
#poet #singer #chicagopoet #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
Baby I will turn them lights out so fast. Ms. C not in her room. #teacher #educator #teachersoftiktok #teacherlife
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #atl
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
are your friends really your friends if they don't encourage your sexiness? #temu #fallfashion #plussizefashion
I'm down ~8 lbs in 8 days so I might be doin ok. yes I know it's mostly junk and water weight, but at least 1 of them pounds is lost fat. anyway. get outside and help your body. #curvyfit #thick #thickgirlfitness
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic #blk #hbcu #hbcupride #hbcugrad #fiskuniversity
This is the end of my 10th year and if I don’t know nothing else, I know public education is a scam. A hustle. And I care too much about literacy and children to keep participating in a system that puts a new name on the same bull. Where whiteness and supremacy still reign. Where the undereducated are empowered to oppress. Where humility, grace, patience, and love for humans is absent. Where we pat ourselves on the back for mediocrity. Where children are bullied and emotionally abused. I can’t keep doing it. I was fired from my job last week and I could not feel lighter. Freer. I’m probably gonna cry later, not because of the job, but because these kids deserve(d) so much more. I know first hand the school to prison pipeline. I watched it in real time. I have no desire to aid in that. So It’s time to go. #teacher #education #teachersleavingteaching #teachersoftiktok #teacherlife
I didn't even know I picked a 3 minute timer. oh well y'all gon watch it.
#selflove #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
#shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
category: Thrifted blazers #fallfashion #teacher #teachersoftiktok #teachers #teacherfashion #thrifted
If I met you after 2012, DM me. you might be my next husband. 🤣🤣🤣#exlpore #fyp #christiandating
young and innocent. 😉
#silly #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything #fyp
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
Yes these are currently with shorts. judge your mama. this was a very good workout. I think you should give it a try when you get a chance. #thickfit #fitness #momfitness #mombody #curvyfit #plussizefitness #selflove #strength #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
I'm always giving... but I'm the republican in the friend group. I don't see that changing. (jk. I am not a Republican.)
Poker night is tonight. But even if you don't play poker you can come and eat and drink and play every other kind of games. Visit www.thecollectivearts.org (or click the link in my bio) to get your ticket for poker night. 💚
God of our weary years, God of our silent tears, Thou who hast brought us thus far on the way, Thou who has by thy might left us into the light, Keep us forever in the path we pray... May we forever stand True to our God True to our native land. 💚 #bhm
#poet #writer #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
I woke up too late to go to my own church this morning, so I decided to take it slow and meditate. I listened to my pastor's sermon live on YouTube, but I still went to another church in person and when I tell you the sermon was so good, I stayed for 2 SERVICES!!! I done heard 3 sermons today that have lifted me. Comment below what you learned in church today. Let's share Jesus with one another today! ✝️ Set: @oldnavy size Large Shoes: @nike Dunks in Pacific Moss Bag: @brandonblackwoodnyc Cortni Fragrance: @target (these are my two fav scents rn) I make my own whipped shea butter that I do sell and ship. Comment "SHE" and I can send you the link for purchase. #ootd #curvyfashion #midsizestyle #plussizefashion #oldnavy #casualstyle #church #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
This that next level intimacy. I be falling in love off the laughter and cuddles.
I had a time last night. 😉 #datenight #chicago #axethrowing
2019. about 195 lbs. still wearing mediums. now look at me. #MaiorSaudade #CapCut
#stitch with @healinghumanity777 why he just get all in my business like that? I have never been described so perfectly in this season of life.
Replying to @ijustbebuyinshxt
At this point in my teaching career, I'm done making underperforming kids feel like they're doing a great job. Miss me with the bs baby. #teacherlife #educator
THERAPY
I celebrated hard all March... and I'm still going in April.
These are my favorite ones #CapCut
mom life is the best life, especially when you can make your baby custom apparel with your @Cricut 👸🏾✨👸🏾✨👸🏾✨#craft #diy #momsoftiktok
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
there's a reason why my name means *princess*
I'm far too much for most.
On a journey of becoming an entrepreneur! This is very daunting but I am thankful.
baby I don't even remember nobody business long enough to gossip about it
The ones that get it, get it. The ones that don't, need not apply.
Love by Toni Morrison #books #blackwomenread #englishteacher
sorry I advance
When you have amazing friends, vacation is wherever you are. Ya’ll could be in India or Indiana and the memories and experiences made will remain unforgettable. We planned a last minute trip far away enough from our kids and (their) husbands to rest but close enough to get back in emergency. Rented an incredibly affordable @airbnb for 2 nights and had a blast! It don’t have to be Mexico and Bali all the time, even though those are on the calendar for us as well. It’s the small moments of prayer and confession and connection that build lifelong friendships that make our lives so much better! You can plan a trip with @airbnb for less than $100/nt and have the time of your life! I highly recommend it! #bestfriends #summer #summervacation #fortwayne #explore #indiana #vacation #airbnb #memories #chosenfamily #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
what we doin for our birthday @playboymaudie #30 #birthday
I'm actually averagely short.
at least you know I'm consistent
Happy Fall Y'all... 🎃🎃🎃#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything #fall
punctuality is not my strong suit.
I got 4 kids. #momlife #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
pride cometh before the fall. Proverbs 16:18
I play too dangon much.
I'm tired and stressed for sure, but I'm on my mama I think this is my best experience so far with teaching in a long time
The full video on YT. LINCOLN BYE OH. #CapCut #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
weird.
#nationaldaughtersday was spent in emotional turmoil. but my kids have a way of restoring me with their simple words. I'm one blessed mama. #CapCut #momlife #love
that's how you know you getting older. when your taste buds start changing.
no because it's literally my life's ongoing search and my mouth has gotten me in unsafe situations more often than I can count so I just shut down and thinking my thoughts.
♈ baby #womenintheir30s #fyp #womenover30
and I am. #churchgirl
If you’ve never been to TALK IT OUT TUESDAYS, you have absolutely no idea what you’re missing out on. This is THEE hottest open mic in the city! A safe space for the novice and the pro! Chicago’s best is always in the room and the love and energy is ALWAYS real, no matter who you are. I won’t be hosting this week, but I will be spittin, sellin my whipped shea butter (new scents dropping!), merch, and giving out hugs to everyone. Hosted by none other than @Eros The Prince of Poetry $10 in advance (comment TIOT for the link) $15 at the door So you gon pull up?!? 💜 #openmic #openmicchicago #chicago #hazelcrest #poetry #poet #artist #chicagoartist #writer #comedy #music #thingstodo #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
this fun. imma do some more.
very true
Call me Bozo babes.
serious eye roll
one thing about me. imma eat. #keto #lowcarb #recipe #foodie #aldi #lowcarbmeals
another winner for Fall #fallfashion #plussize #temu
toilet toks #voiceeffects
I have undiagnosed ADHD. leave me alone.
I’ll be in Kansas City in December. Pull up on me!
... my background music might make you think idk what I'm talking about, but I do.
Come hear the rest of this poem Friday. Willis Tower.
literally emptying drafts. but just know that church girls need love, too.
#sheunapologetic #shedoeverything #booktok #blackreader
#duet with @irondmdad welp. that's me.
#stitch with @chokeonthisk the justice system is not ever for us. The courts shouldn't have to MAKE YOU let him see his kid, just like they shouldn't have to make him provide for his kid.
I don't earn rest. it's a birthright
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
new yt video 😘
#aifilter #episodeisekaicapcut #EkspresikanAIKamu
#teenfilter #teenagefilter #freckles
😬
... no one asked but.
I mean. it's not wrong.
Summarize previous arguments, then add a new perspective that is original.
yo. I love every detail about my face. but the nose is 🤌
straight like dat
Adulting is tryna kill me, but shoutout to @GEICO for making sure my pockets aren't empty and my coverage is full. #adulting
as an English teacher.m and writer... I'd be ashamed if I wasn't.
the audacity of my therapist to psychoanalyze me.
I’m an English teacher and a poet. I was challenged to write this so I did. In the middle of class I stopped to write. Without being a poet, I would’ve never become a teacher, do I owed myself this. #poetrytok #poetry #poet #spokenword #chicagopoetry #writer #teacher #teachersoftiktok
I opened Pandora's box a few days ago and been in my feelings ever since... Our ancestors (though my gheema is alive and well) are not perfect. Their prayers kept and are still keeping us, but the generational curses passed through them are a constant battle we must still free ourselves from. I have been praying for my children and grandchildren and their grandchildren for the past few days, because I too will be an ancestor one day, and I need the same God that heals me to heal them from me. In the words of my favorites Ray & Jani Ortlund, I pray deliverance "To the Tenth Generation." 💚 #healing #keepsakes #vintage #family #parentification #therapy #prayer #christian #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
#duet with @vadesings wait. this the one. this my real first tik tok. be nice now.
Celebrating my oldest’s birthday
I got a million reasons to smile. 999,999,999 of them is because I’m Black.
don't bite the hand that feeds you... #poet #poetry #poem #poetrylover #poetsoftiktok #spokenword #
All day. every day.
I collect books as a form of mental health. this summer reading list is stacked!!! #read #reader #summerreading #booktok #usedbooks #booklover
Y'all trying to be funny ain't it...
I drink way more @dunkin than I'm proud to admit.
this darn app play too much.
#poetry
clearly I had a rough day. whole earring missing.
we too big to just be kickin it. I at least need a start and end time. I don't have time for "whatever".
for Black men and lovers of Black men 💚 #poetry #poet #poetrytok #poetrylover #spokenword #openmic
but I actually though.
go to hell. #MessFreeHero
I have HUNDREDS of books in my library at home. There is no way I'll read them all in this lifetime. But I'd love to share some w/ you. #books
I.... 😲 never mind
but that 21% Gon feel like 100 when it hit. #fyp #sheunapologetic #shedoeverything
Just out here giving the church girls a little tutorial. 😜 If you know, you know. 💚 Meet me next week at Talk It Out Tuesdays where I will be your host. Next week’s feature will be @rosegolddani as we celebrate her birthday!!! This queen is our resident therapist, but she is also an incredible writer, matriarch, and just a beautiful energy to behold. The attire is Black leather and lace so you know we will have a good time. Tickets are $10 in advance. $15 at the door. Ask me how to get your tix in the comments. 🎤🎤🎤 And you are a writer, comedian, poet, songstress, or general next week’s prompt is: “My 3 Most Important Things Are” #openmic #chicago #openmicchicago #poetry #music #poet #writer #chicagoartist #chicagopoet #poem #writer #comedy #chicagocomedy #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
And then its cols and rainy todat?!? I need to be put up!
Those who know me know this is true on multiple levels.
a Lil jazz for you. #jazz #singer #bhm
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
Kansas City is coming outside!
making tik toks to avoid responsibility. #locs
my kids don't play about me... and these the youngest two. 😂😂😂 #twinmom #fyp #exlpore
considering that I'm in love with myself. you'd be right.
from the Typewriter Poet Kira Caillouet •••••••••••• Wine & Words Wednesday, Dec 18 ticket link in bio
birthday flowers 💚
Bruh. I don’t wanna leave my church but the introvert in me be overwhelmed
#toga
Wine & Words Open Mic 11/20 7PM Vintrendi Wines in Olympia Fields tix link in bio #chicago #poetry #thingstodoinchicago #thingstodoinchicagosuburbs #openmic
bye
This is what being a full time artist and full time teacher looks like. I was trying to do @King Kamayera challenge for days and just didn’t have the time. Made the time in the middle of my lesson. Wanted to film it during my planning time, but I had to babysit my students. These are the bloopers from trying to film. 💚 I may post the full poem later.
Wine & Words Open Mic every 3rd Wednesday. Click the link in my bio for tix. #openmic #poet #poetry #spokenword #poem #poetrylover #poetsoftiktok #thingstodoinchicago
and this was the second head I did overnight. both my daughters needed a retwist. 🥴 #momlife #locs #girlmom
what you tryna say tt?
I receive it
Do it scared. or tipsy. whichever gets you through. 💚
From oldest child to oldest child, make sure you focus less on the “oldest” and more on the “child”. Parenting is hard enough. Don’t make them start too early.
Yes. This dress is also fron Temu…
Baby. my girls do not play about each other.
1 year without a retwist. Now my homie back in the game. 😌 Book me. #locs #chicagolocs #chicagolocstylist #sheunapologetic
Believe it or not, 1. I have 5 less locs than when I started. 2. I’ve cut my hair twice (and vowed to never dye it again but this video from 2021 got me bout to renege.) 3. My hair naturally changes color to light brown over time. 4. This is the longest my hair has EVER been. 5. My locs are deeply connected to my relationship with God and myself. They tell a story. And I’m thankful for this journey. 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 I’ll be 11 years locd Aug 2. But I celebrate my hair journey today. It is a long story of my womanhood and all its trials and glory. Day 14. #locs #loc #locnation #loclivin #locjourney #loclife #womenwithlocs #naturalhair #womanhood #shedoeverything #sheunapologetic
dress from @Temu. self love from Heaven.
I remember my ex used to get offended that I was good with my hands... who knew I'd only get better?
pov: you're addicted to stress